Mary
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posted 08 December 2004 01:32 PM
Hi Krystyn
You certainly had an ordeal with the birth of your first baby! Glad to hear that you and your daughter are well.
Every pregnancy, baby and birth are different and there is no guarantee that an APH will happen again. Your fear of it happening again is very real because that has been your experience of birth so far. I’d suggest talking to other women about your experience (women who have had a similar thing happen) or a councellor, or writing down your birth story, identifying those things that you feel most afraid of. Then, work through each issue slowly, either with the guidance of a councellor, or with your partner. The book ‘Birthing from Within’ is a great guide on journeying through fears.
As mentioned previously, the main risk with vbac is uterine rupture – which occurs less than 1%. In a systematic review of 568 articles on uterine rupture after previous caesarean section, (Guise JM, McDonagh MS, Osterweil P, Nygren P, Chan BK, Helfand M. Systematic review of the incidence and consequences of uterine rupture in women with previous caesarean section. BMJ 2004;329:19-25.) Guise et al, state that to prevent one rupture, you’d need to perform 370 (213 to 1370) elective caesarean deliveries! They also state that repeat caesarean delivery is not guaranteed to prevent uterine rupture.
It’s always a good idea, when planning for a vbac to write a birthplan, including your desires for a vaginal birth as well as a caesarean birth (if it becomes necessary). At the end of the day it is not vaginal vs caesarean, but a birth where both mother and baby are safe and well and the experience has been an enjoyable, empowering one for the mother (and the baby too). See the ‘planning a positive caesarean’ section on this website for ideas.
You’re not being selfish in your desire for a vaginal birth (or to not have a repeat of what happened last time). It just takes a bit more planning and exercising of your rights to have the kind of experience that you desire. So, read, talk, prepare, work through your fears and as someone once said to me, aim for the moon and even if you don’t reach it, you’ll be up there with the stars…
Good Luck Midwife Mary
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