Men's
Experiences.
As a woman I find it really hard to understand the male
perspective of birth - I do try - especially in regard to
VBAC and past birth experiences. But...
- How often do we, as women, wonder what our
husband/partner is thinking about our plans for a
caesarean/VBAC birth?
- Do we discuss with them what they remember of the
past experiences of birth, that we were both
intrinsically involved in?
We choose our man to accompany us on our jouney into
parenthood, but we often don't truly 'involve' them in the
thoughts, emotions, issues and worries that we encounter
along the way.
What better way to understand our partners emotions
surrounding these vital life experiences than through the
words of men who have been 'there'. These Men's stories are
also valuable to share with your partners, to let them know
that they aren't alone in feeling as they do during this
exciting phase in both your lives (the time of growing a
family and birthing your children).
If you can coerce any male you know (yourself, if you're
a guy?) into writing something about this, I would really
appreciate, and honour, all efforts I receive. The stories
should focus on past birth experiences and impending
caesarean/VBAC/EBAC issues.
*VBAC - Vaginal Birth After Caesarean
*EBAC - Empowered Birth After Caesarean
The
Stories...
If you can contribute, then please send your
story by email to: Birthrites
A website of interest for Men
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